orang cakap..bukan saya cakap..
kalau kita nak orang percaya kita, kita kena percaya orang tu dulu..
tapi macamana nak percaya orang 100% zaman sekarang ni? susah kan..bila baca paper bapak rogol anak sendiri sampai mengandung, tak ke buat kita terpikir..kalau bapak sendiri pon kita tak boleh percaya, orang lain apantah lagi..
tapi saya percaya, buat baik dibalas baik..jadi kalau kita percaya orang, mungkin orang akan percaya kita..
erm..tapi saya pernah kena tegur dengan manager kat ofis sebab pernah one day masa keluar dengan dia nak pergi makan, ada sorang cina ni tiba2 tegur nak mintak tolong..he said that his car was out of gas and he left his wallet. so he asked me for rm10 as a favor..
he said he will pay me back..my reaction? erm..what was on my mind that time was if i'm in his position i would like for someone to help me too..and it just rm10 so i gave him the money and asked for my number to pay me back.
what happen after that was, he call me the next day to pay me back but on top of that, he told me that he has some business opportunity and asked if i'm interested. i said no and he said that he's somewhere around mydin to pay me back. i told him that it's ok..it just rm10 so he no need to pay me back but he insist to pay me back..as it was in the morning, i told him that i couldnt go there..i could meet him around lunch hour..so what happen was, when i reached there, i texted him. and he said that he already left and he will pay me back next time..
so, after what happen, my manager told me not to trust people easily..people could just go to you, asked for money. and he might be a thief or whatsoever..yelah, zaman sekarang kan banyak kes..ada pukau la apalah..macam-macam kan..she said it's not the matters of money but it is about our safety too..i guess it's true but i just couldnt help for feeling sorry when people asked for help..macam bila ada budak2 mintak derma..or kat kedai2 makan ada orang datang mintak derma untuk orang-orang susah, kadang2 kita jadi sangat sceptical kan..orang ni betul ke or dari sindiket penipuan..kadang-kadang bagi je sebab malas nak argue..and kadang-kadang tu cakap taknak and buat taktau tapi deep down tetap rasa bersalah..what if, orang tu betul2 mintak derma untuk orang yang memerlukan?
jadi, macamana nak detect..orang macamana boleh dipercayai..and orang macamana tak boleh dipercayai? takkan kita nak percaya orang based on their appearance..sebab perompak pon boleh pakai serban and nampak macam orang alim and baik2..and tak semua orang yang pakai rugged2, seluar koyak sana sini atas nama fesyen tak boleh dipercayai..so under what ground do we judge whether certain person could be trust and certain we shouldnt trust them?
3 comments:
1.sedekah itu mendatangkan pahala..kalau orang meminta itu satu sindikit penipuan ke ape ke... itu terpulang lah bagaimana die mahu berhadapan dengan TUHAN-nya kelak.yang penting kita jangan berfikir pape tika memberi sedekah.lakukan dengan seikhlasnya.kerana sedekah itu ibadah yang paling disukai Rasulullah s.a.w.
2.dalam keadaan sekarang,perlu juga diberi perhatian pada suasana/tempat untuk kita hulurkan bantuan terutama wang,kerana menjaga keselamatan diri itu juga ibadah.
3.kamu sebagai kaum hawa,batas telah ditetapkan oleh syara' dalam perhubungan sesama manusia.fikirkanlah yang terbaik agar tidak terpalit dengan fitnah akhir zaman.
btol ckp anonymous ni Az.. kita dah wat tanggungjawab kite iaitu bagi duit so trpulanglah pada org tu sama ada nk gune duit tu jln baik or jln buruk... aku pun prnah kene cm tu gak.. rasanye mat gian kot... kt pudu lak tu..alahai malang nasib. tp lama2 aku pk aku niat nk tlg org tu..xpe la.. cume lpas ni kene brhati2 ckit...hehehe
kau pon pnah kena ke hadi..hehe
bnda ni dah jd normal kn..kte kesian but end up kte kena tipu..tp btul la..wutever pon niat kn..hehe
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