the mystery of love..

At office when we were all chatting around , suddenly kak su asked edy how old he would be next year.

I interrupted," 25.."

Edy,"eyh 24 la..liza yang 25..eyh dah tua tu 25..kena kawen cepat2.."

me,"............."

usually when people asked me when i will get married, i will answer, "akhir tahun..cuma tahun je tak tau bila.."

brilliant isnt it? muahahaha..

but lately in the office, marriage and love became the main topic when we were chatting to let go some burden of work pressure..

like yesterday, kak su asked me or more like saying that she's wondering how's the feeling of broken heart or in simple word, 'putus cinta' since she were in loved once and get married to his one and only boyfriend..

and like her, only that i'm not married yet, i never experienced 'putus cinta'..but the feeling of being rejected because another person doesnt know the feelings, who doesnt experience it right..hehe

so both of us interviewed everyone in the office how's the feeling..eceh interviewed..budget pengacara ke apa..hehe

Person 1 ," saya putus cinta relaks je..cam dah putus, putuslah..takde nak meraung2 ke.."

k.su,"tapi dah sayang takkan lah takde sedih ke apa...ni mesti sebab person 1 yang tinggalkan diaorg.."

"sedihlah..cuma takdelah rasa sedih sangat2 ke...aah..banyaknya saya yang putus dengan diaorg.."

my reaction, "patutlah..."

Person 2 , "uih.. dulu kalau putus cinta seminggu menangis..memang seminggu jelah..lepas tu, takde, cari lain..tapi memang seminggu tu, bangun tidur menangis, nak tidur menangis..buat apa2 pon menangis..tapi takdela mandi tak basah makan tak lalu..makan berkali2 jugak..haha"

me," iye? uisyh seminggu je..saya tengok kawan2 sayalah..yang banyaknya putus cinta, memang menangislah..luar nampak happy tapi boleh nampak dia sedih..ada yang sampai sakit2 lah..ada yang fail examlah..ada yang try carik orang lain tapi at the same time mengharap kat bf/gf lamala..macam2lah.."

person 2,"memanglah..lain orang lain dia punya cara sedih tu.."

Person 3 , " saya relax je putus cinta..pastu carik lain..macam dulu saya putus ngan awek lama, esoknya saya couple ngan orang lain..."

k.su," itu memang dah kenal orang lain masa kau dengan gf lama tu..mesti kau yang tinggalkan dia.."

person 3,"eyh takdelah k.su..dia tinggalkan saya sebab nak kawen..tapi kawen 6 bulan je bercerai..orang laki ni putus cinta relax je k.su..takde nak tunjuk2 sangat..nak sedih2 sangat takdela..carik orang lain.."

the 4th person, a guy said the same thing..in addition he said that he still kept his ex-es things and pictures as a memory..but k.arma said that she burn all the things of his ex-es..takde kenangan2 ni..

i asked him,"(his gf's name) tau tak (person 4) simpan gambar ex gf (person 4)?"

person 4"eyh mestilah taktau..mana boleh tau..gambar tu bkn apa..kenangan je.."

me,"habis tu kalau dia simpan gambar ex-bf dia bolehlah ye?"

person 4,"eyh mana boleh.." and he was speechless..

sometimes i just wonder..why some people doesnt want others to do something, but at the same time they did the same thing.. like in person 4 case, kept the picture of his ex but doesnt want his gf to keep the picture of her ex.. when we doesnt want others to do certain things, we have to do the same thing to others to right? what you gave, you get back.. and i always believe that there should be a give and take in relationship.. life and love works in mysterious ways.. eceh2..ayat tak boleh blah..hehehe..

okeih..arini sudah merepek dengan panjangnya..marilah tidur..esok keje..haih..