An emo thought

Terbaca suratkhabar pasal sorang remaja perempuan 14tahun yang tidak segan silu mengaku sudah tidak dara, buat saya terfikir apa perasaan orang tua dia bila dengar anaknya berani buat pengakuan 'berani mati' tu. I tried not to be jugdemental. It's her right to do so but i am more concern about her parents. If i were one of her parents, i couldnt know what i'll do. Honestly to be a parent one have to be prepared to faced obstacle like this. To be prepared on what will happen to their child.. to whom their child will become..

To be parents is not easy. I heard someone said and i still remember my husband told me, (something like this) "Allah lebih tau dari kita. Kalau kita belum bersedia jadi ibu n abah, Allah tau....Kalau kita belum bersedia jadi pemimpin anak-anak kita, jadi belum adalah rezeki untuk kita jadi ibu n abah...."

How do we know that we are prepared to be parents..And when..

And when we are prepared, will we be granted children from Allah..

We never know.. All we can do know is to pray and get back to our one and only, Allah SWT..